...A well-hidden industry secret has found it's way to the surface. Word is, the fiancee of a crossover R&B singer found herself pregnant with his child sometime last year (or maybe the year before). Supposedly, the singer asked his fiancee to "prove her love" to him because he didn't want children. The decision was not an easy one for her, but the fiancee did as he requested. Out of gratitude, the singer popped the question. Sources say the singer feels he has found the realest woman in the world. [sandra rose]
Labels: Juicy Tales, New Couple, Usher
At 11:45 PM, 
At 9:03 PM,
Ok….this is going to be hard, and I have put off commenting for a minute now…but…here goes!!!! Now, I loves me some Usher BUT he is still human (and a man at that) so I don’t put the “request” past him. I mean think about it, how many of us (or a friend) have been in a situation like this (minus the marriage & possible kids), where you get preggers by a guy and he says “I’m not ready to have kids yet…or…this is too soon…or….you trapped me….and of course the infamous…it aint mine!/how do you know that’s my baby!? That being said here’s my take (IF TRUE) on the “not so blind item”…..IT’S A DAMN SHAME!!! NOT because she got pregnant, but because SHE WAS MARRIED!!!…IF it’s true. It sounds more feasible that her becoming pregnant by Ush while married would NOT have been a good look in the public’s eye, and would have had a significant impact on Usher’s career, and that was a “scandal” HE was not willing to take on, so he asked her to get rid of it. That rather than jeopardize his career, they would sacrifice the pregnancy instead and later (after she divorced her husband and moved out of the house they still shared) they would “go public” with their union and IF she turned up pregnant then, it would not be as big of a deal. The fact that Tameka (or any woman for that matter) would go through with terminating a pregnancy (IF TRUE), to satisfy the request of a man and then wait around for him to make an honest woman out of you is pathetic! Even more so if a man has that much CONTROL over you! Now I have heard a lot of things about Miss Foster, some good some bad, but of all the things I’ve heard, being a STRONG INDEPENDENT person was one of her strongest highlights! NOTHING about this “act of love” says I’M STRONG AND INDEPENDENT!!!…OR EVEN A WOMAN!!!!
I hope Usher and Tameka don’t think that people are so foolish as to believe that they didn’t “hook-up” until AFTER her marriage was dissolved! I hope THEY don’t think that people are so naïve as to think that he found the “realist” woman after ONLY dating her for less than a year!?!?! Most importantly I hope THEY realize that “what is done in darkness shall be brought to light” and that sooner or later we will ALL be EXPOSED to the truth…no matter WHO you are, and from the TRUTH there is no escape. If they love each other for the right reasons then I wish them the best that life has to offer them, but if not then, I wish them the best in getting out of this sh!thole they dug for themselves!!!! JMO
Sorry for being so :long winded" Miss Chi Chi on the last post but I've been holding back (as you can see) :)
By the way, I wanted to say that I mean No disrespect to the REAL MEN out there that actually DO get "caught up" by the women (cooochie trappers) out there who have "hidden agenda's" when they hook up with you guys! ~SPECIAL NOTE...Due to the recent Imus comments and the "new look" we (black people)have to take in the mirror, I had to be politically correct when addressing the "women" mentioned above.~
There ARE REAL MEN out there who "stand-up" when required...and men BEWARE!!! There are REAL COOOCHIE TRAPPER's out there too!! ~TF...girl stand up!!!!~ LMAO
You are absolutely right Miss Chi Chi..."if Tameka IS the one", then like I said I wish them the best and she deserves to be happy regardless of who it's with....BUT....If this "blind item" applies to her, then my "opinion” about the situation remains. It's really not about just the "female" but applies to the "man" also! Each person should be responsible for his or her own "individual" acts and decisions, and choices like having "kids" should be carefully discussed (preferably before you go bareback). This subject is a "semi" sensitive one to me personally because I have been there!!! I have been with my man for 10yrs (not all of which were easy or nice, a relationship is HARD WORK and a real one doesn't happen over night or without "issues or scars"), and I joke about him having [this] on lock...BUT...that Ne-Gro got real ignant (spelled wrong on purpose) when I got pregnant with or son after being together 5 yrs! It went from "I aint ready...to...It aint mine...to...Have an abortion"...blah blah blah! Not only did I tell him to kiss my azz but I put his azz OUT TOO! He eventually came back to reality and we raise our child together, But we no-longer live together! His reaction to me getting pregnant and his venomous words has cost him ALOT!! He no-longer gets the privilege of waking up every morning and being greeted by that magnetic smile of our child, he no-longer gets to tuck him in at night and bless him, (and most importantly) He no-longer has COD (coochie-on-demand) like he had it before. Now, I love him and consider him a dear friend as we have shared alot, and at the moment I am content, HOWEVER, he lost more than KOOL POINTS with that sh!t and he regrets EVER suggesting I “get rid of” our child whenever he looks at his ONLY SON!.
the things u hear..lol. I only wonder what will surface next. Good luck to them I guess.